Find a Mate

Before your wedding, you need to find your Mr or Miss Right may not just appear before your eyes.

Do not expect that the right mate would walk right in front of you one day.

If you would like to find a mate, be sociable.

1. take part in a common activity like having a regular game of badminton or tennis or golf together, or going for film show and dinners as a group with peers or colleagues of around the same age group.

2. take a course
many couples meet in schools or educational instutions

3. join a club
you may meet your mate in a club, country club, adventure club or makan club where you hang out

4. dating service
this would pair you up with criteria you have set prior to meeting the potential mate usually in a group setting for the first few dates

5. join a community
many meet their mates in a community like church or religious setting, as they work together ...

all being said and done, don't be shy, get talking to people and they would be able to find you approachable and lovable and who knows they may introduce to you a good life partner


know this, there is no such thing as Mr Right or Miss Right
you have to make it work ... both parties ...
compatibility ... if there is little conflict and more enjoyable times together ...chances are this person may be a good partner ...

spending time ... you need to spend time knowing your partner if he or she is going to be with you for life ... don't jump into marriage too soon ... one to two years of courtship should be a good gauge of the relationshop ...